Christina (l0st_lust) wrote in chew_toy_hearts,
Christina
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you were wrong from the start... but i never tried to correct you

Happiness in a nutshell...

happiness can come free and unexpectedly... don't seek it too desperately. relax and it will appear....
i try not to waste energy on negative emotions... it's useless...WHAT I AM THINKING NOW IS CONTRIBUTING TO THE OUTCOME OF MY LIFE... So i do my best to control my negative thoughts confront them and move on...step over all the little things that make me nervous... so why am i incapable of facing up to the things that anger me sometimes... why is it so difficult to be more assertive?
yet when confronted by a serious issue i always hear myself saying "they should do something about that" when will i realized that "they" is actually me?
Being honest with others usually leaves me satisfied yet.... I'm frequently not honest with myself...
when i was younger i was so happy for no reason at all and now... the older i get the more i find myself at times pretending to be happy for a million different reasons...

half the people around me says they are so happy... but happiness is like honesty. you should always beware of those who tell you they are honest...
and the other half is stressed out because they feel they have more than they can handle... why should you get so unhappy about having too much to do? Look on every challenge as a chance to prove yourself.... and try to remember that no thing is greater than the sum of its parts.
And those who actualy ARE happy often walk, unshaken, along the path that a thousand unhappy people insist is wrong. Those unhappy people- who follow the "right" road -usually carry some reason for unhappiness with them. Just incase one can't be found along the way...

i can't understand why everyone seems to be delighted in finding the faults and weaknesses of others and pointing it out... there is nothing heroic in telling the unhappy of your delirium...
we all take these weaknesses we spot and learn from them being certain not to project them ourselves... only we seem inept and unable of realizing that happiness is not only being able to learn from others but also living in a manner others can learn from????
i try to remember to truly gain your independance you must realize that on this earth we are all dependant on each other.. and its easy to feel isolated in personal sadness. but no sorrow is new -- all mankind is linked by shared experience...


the world will not devote itsself to making me happy...
only i can do that ... and i THINK i'm doing a fairly good job.... most days


ARE YOU HAPPY to be one of somebody's problems in life???
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